The kiss in the darkened conference room is a given.

I hope he realizes that That Guy in the Office Who Likes to Bang Married Chicks now has her squarely in his sights.

That Guy in the Office Who Likes to Bang Married Chicks knows that banging the single Office Girls is a losing proposition: they will inevitably want commitment and emotional support; the Married Ones need to keep it cool and off-the-radar, It Is A Secret.

First there will be little knowing smiles, perhaps a faux-shy nod. Then, he will return to the Office one afternoon and happen to have for her a Starbucks beverage just the way she likes it: he has been paying attention.

Soon it will be time for the Innocent Lunch, where he will be sympathetic to her new stresses of Marriage and she will inevitably say something she will wish she hadn't. Women in these situations ALWAYS say something they wish they hadn't.

It will be awkward for a day or two, but then that awkwardness starts a frisson of its own: he acts like nothing has happened, and she likes that he can act like nothing has happened: this will be important in The Future.

Soon there will be more lunches: an accidental brushing of arms, a light touch of understanding on the leg. Her husband hasn't made note that she is wearing a lot of the Cleavage Clothing from her wardrobe lately.

The kiss in the darkened conference room is a given.

The next step is that hotel down the road where they have Clients stay; again -- awkward at first -- but soon he is banging her doggy-style while she clutches at the sheets while wearing that cheap necklace her Husband had bought her for some silly reason or another.

Now, That Guy in the Office Who Likes to Bang Married Chicks is getting blow-jobs in the Supply Room and has let her know he wants Anal.

She doesn't want that, not really, but she can't just let  That Guy in the Office Who Likes to Bang Married Chicks go: she has invested too much Secret Currency in the situation, so: Anal it is.

Now That Guy in the Office Who Likes to Bang Married Chicks has had anal sex with her while her own husband hasn't: She feels like a Dirty Girl, but an Exciting Exhilarated Dirty Girl.

Meanwhile, the Husband has begun to notice a distance in her eyes, a distracted quality he can't quite put her finger on. He puts it off as Nothing; he is trying to bang a Single Chick at the Office, with no success.

So that's what will happen, pretty much.

I am Laslo.

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